life lessons

MARRIAGE is like a SHOE!!!.

When you wear oversize MARRIAGE is like a shoe. When you wear
oversize be ready to drag it along through out
life, and when you wear under-size be ready to
feel the pains through out life.”
One thing about marriage is that you don’t drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or how stressful it is.
That is why I thought it necessary to write you
this letter.
Dear Singles,
When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things:
Physical appearance: Do not look for the
beautiful ones, the nice ones or the cheap ones.
Look for the one that is your size. Not every
handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you,
not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for
the one that is meant for you, the one that
aligns with your values and belief, the one who
you meet at your life’s journey. It is important
to know where you’re going in life before you
think of getting a wife.
Position: All sizes of shoes are not placed in the
same place. There is a place for court shoes, laced up shoes, sport footwear, snickers etc. We have Children sizes, young people’s sizes and the adult sizes.
Know where to get your own shoe. Your size
cannot be everywhere my brother, your type
cannot be everywhere my sister. You cannot be
a Christian, and be looking for a wife material at
a club. Your wife or husband can’t just be
everywhere.
Stick to your values and therein you shall find
someone like you, but when your values are not
defined anyone can just match you. Discover
yourself and define your values
Perception: In this kind of shoe purchasing
enterprise, you are not permitted to try the
shoe before you buy. This is why it is important
to seek guidance and counseling, from people
who have bought shoes before or are into the
business of directing people to the right shoes
(Pastors and Relationship coaches).
And most importantly to avoid much time
wasting time, simply consult the shoe
manufacturer to tell you your size (God
Almighty).
“You do not prepare for wedding, you prepare
for marriage.”
Ladies these days get so motivated when they
attend wedding and they will quickly want to say
yes to that guy. Wait!!! It is not just the wedding
oh. The wedding is just one day. After the
wedding WHAT NEXT?
Finally, it is not something you rush to the
market and just pick a shoe because you like or
can purchase it.
Ask questions
-Where is this shoe made from? (Background)
-What’s the size (Values)
-How much (His/Her interest)
-How long will it last (His/Her Character)
-Who made it? (Is she/He of the same faith This
is compatibility)
-Will it match me? (This is whether he/she love
you and will accept you the way you are)
Dear one, remember many are dragging their
foot and they would hardly reach their destinies, many are feeling endless pains and wish they could pull off the shoes but no way!!! I have seen people with beautiful shoes and when they show you their foot, you will see scars. Beloved, it is not about the physical, it is the size, you can’t know the size from afar so come close, build a relationship first but remember ‘you are not permitted to try it before you buy it’.
And for those who have purchased the wrong
shoes, you can still make it your size again if
you’d consult the manufacturer and let Him have His way in your marriage. But remember that marriage is to be enjoyed, not endured.
God bless us all.
Send this to all singles, you might be touching someone’s life with the right word. ready to drag it along through out life, and when you wear under-size be ready to feel the pains through out life.”
One thing about marriage is that you don’t drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or how stressful it is.
That is why I thought it necessary to write you
this letter.
Dear Singles,
When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things:
Physical appearance: Do not look for the
beautiful ones, the nice ones or the cheap ones.
Look for the one that is your size. Not every
handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you,
not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for
the one that is meant for you, the one that
aligns with your values and belief, the one who
you meet at your life’s journey. It is important
to know where you’re going in life before you
think of getting a wife.
Position: All sizes of shoes are not placed in the
same place. There is a place for court shoes, laced up shoes, sport footwear, snickers etc. We have Children sizes, young people’s sizes and the adult sizes.
Know where to get your own shoe. Your size
cannot be everywhere my brother, your type
cannot be everywhere my sister. You cannot be
a Christian, and be looking for a wife material at
a club. Your wife or husband can’t just be
everywhere.
Stick to your values and therein you shall find
someone like you, but when your values are not
defined anyone can just match you. Discover
yourself and define your values
Perception: In this kind of shoe purchasing
enterprise, you are not permitted to try the
shoe before you buy. This is why it is important
to seek guidance and counseling, from people
who have bought shoes before or are into the
business of directing people to the right shoes
(Pastors and Relationship coaches).
And most importantly to avoid much time
wasting time, simply consult the shoe
manufacturer to tell you your size (God
Almighty).
“You do not prepare for wedding, you prepare
for marriage.”
Ladies these days get so motivated when they
attend wedding and they will quickly want to say
yes to that guy. Wait!!! It is not just the wedding
oh. The wedding is just one day. After the
wedding WHAT NEXT?
Finally, it is not something you rush to the
market and just pick a shoe because you like or
can purchase it.
Ask questions
-Where is this shoe made from? (Background)
-What’s the size (Values)
-How much (His/Her interest)
-How long will it last (His/Her Character)
-Who made it? (Is she/He of the same faith This
is compatibility)
-Will it match me? (This is whether he/she love
you and will accept you the way you are)
Dear one, remember many are dragging their
foot and they would hardly reach their destinies, many are feeling endless pains and wish they could pull off the shoes but no way!!! I have seen people with beautiful shoes and when they show you their foot, you will see scars. Beloved, it is not about the physical, it is the size, you can’t know the size from afar so come close, build a relationship first but remember ‘you are not permitted to try it before you buy it’.
And for those who have purchased the wrong
shoes, you can still make it your size again if
you’d consult the manufacturer and let Him have His way in your marriage. But remember that marriage is to be enjoyed, not endured.
God bless us all.

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freelancer at Bahati Media Group
I'm a blogger, freelancer and a skeptical writer. If i'm not writing posts, i'm doing other things like watching movies, writing and reviewing books, enjoying music and movies. Hire me to write for you by emailing me editor@bahatimedia.com
Bahati Walker Icons
I'm a blogger, freelancer and a skeptical writer. If i'm not writing posts, i'm doing other things like watching movies, writing and reviewing books, enjoying music and movies. Hire me to write for you by emailing me editor@bahatimedia.com
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